RULES OF INTERACTION:
Social situations fascinate me. (Having several anthropologist parents will do this.) People dance about, engage in games, learn where they fit and/or work to fit in elsewhere/otherwise. It helps to be aware of what's going on around, what triggers what, what's liked/disliked/enjoyed/despised by whom, what's valued, what's not, who has what goals, needs, desires, options, expectations...and what shifts as the personnel move about and the location varies. Constellations exist...patterns shift 'pending on gravitational pulls (people, places & things). Activities vary and impact the sitch. Different rules emerge according to various factors: # of folks, r-ship 'tween folks, in-house v. public, focus of get-together, etc.
Why do we choose to interact? What needs do we want/hope/expect to get filled through the process of interaction (during and/or afterwards in decompression and/or w/aid of memory/reflection)? What're the goals of interaction?
Social situations fascinate me. (Having several anthropologist parents will do this.) People dance about, engage in games, learn where they fit and/or work to fit in elsewhere/otherwise. It helps to be aware of what's going on around, what triggers what, what's liked/disliked/enjoyed/despised by whom, what's valued, what's not, who has what goals, needs, desires, options, expectations...and what shifts as the personnel move about and the location varies. Constellations exist...patterns shift 'pending on gravitational pulls (people, places & things). Activities vary and impact the sitch. Different rules emerge according to various factors: # of folks, r-ship 'tween folks, in-house v. public, focus of get-together, etc.
Why do we choose to interact? What needs do we want/hope/expect to get filled through the process of interaction (during and/or afterwards in decompression and/or w/aid of memory/reflection)? What're the goals of interaction?