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mlerulesI far prefer social options to social obligations...and will work on structuring my life to make the former more likely than the latter...while not being a flake. Balance yet again comes into play.
There's a difference between being complacent and being happy. Important to figure out where on the scale you fall...and if'n you don't like it there, to shift in the preferred direction...'cept it's not a two-choice scale, it's a complex web, triangles here, 4-aspect set of lines there...analysis...with leaps of faith.
Internal support base as important as the external. Ideally they compliment each other, feeding each other...mutuality's important: give and take...and create something more/new/additional in the process: sum should be greater than the parts if'n it's working. Again: this is what I need. This is IT (what I need) in general terms...next up: finding out the specifics which'll satisfy the need(s). Peacefulness can be an indicator of fulfilled need(s). Interspersed w/bliss. Measured by smiles...ear to ear...contagious glee rox!
Decided today on a new life motto, although perhaps it's too early to tell. But I'm gonna make the leap and say it's so: it's a stage...hell, all the world's a stage (and all the men and women merely players): Curious But Not Committed. Even as I find myself over-committed. This DOES make sense, but you might have to be inside my head/body/soul/space to understand it.
Brownie points are the opposite of smart bombs. I don't want a bratty sub. Complex and interesting doesn't necessarily mean mature. Emotional maturity versus social maturity versus flexibility. On flexibility: are breadth and depth equally important? I feel fairly shallow in some ways, yet massively deep in others. I don't know many facts, but I put 'em together in interesting ways...and I can often find out what I need to when I need to know it to use it.
Now and again I think of r-ships in economic terms...don't always like the analogy, but sometimes it works. Figured out how I dealt with one sitch where I was emotionally "over-investing"...I divested myself somewhat...kept a partial interest...need to work on this more...but not now...soon though. Req'd for a subprincess: tie her up and amuse her. Subprinces also exist.
In order to get along with me...in order to stand me, it helps tremendously if'n you're "babble-friendly."
There's a difference between being complacent and being happy. Important to figure out where on the scale you fall...and if'n you don't like it there, to shift in the preferred direction...'cept it's not a two-choice scale, it's a complex web, triangles here, 4-aspect set of lines there...analysis...with leaps of faith.
Internal support base as important as the external. Ideally they compliment each other, feeding each other...mutuality's important: give and take...and create something more/new/additional in the process: sum should be greater than the parts if'n it's working. Again: this is what I need. This is IT (what I need) in general terms...next up: finding out the specifics which'll satisfy the need(s). Peacefulness can be an indicator of fulfilled need(s). Interspersed w/bliss. Measured by smiles...ear to ear...contagious glee rox!
Decided today on a new life motto, although perhaps it's too early to tell. But I'm gonna make the leap and say it's so: it's a stage...hell, all the world's a stage (and all the men and women merely players): Curious But Not Committed. Even as I find myself over-committed. This DOES make sense, but you might have to be inside my head/body/soul/space to understand it.
Brownie points are the opposite of smart bombs. I don't want a bratty sub. Complex and interesting doesn't necessarily mean mature. Emotional maturity versus social maturity versus flexibility. On flexibility: are breadth and depth equally important? I feel fairly shallow in some ways, yet massively deep in others. I don't know many facts, but I put 'em together in interesting ways...and I can often find out what I need to when I need to know it to use it.
Now and again I think of r-ships in economic terms...don't always like the analogy, but sometimes it works. Figured out how I dealt with one sitch where I was emotionally "over-investing"...I divested myself somewhat...kept a partial interest...need to work on this more...but not now...soon though. Req'd for a subprincess: tie her up and amuse her. Subprinces also exist.
In order to get along with me...in order to stand me, it helps tremendously if'n you're "babble-friendly."
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Date: 2006-04-14 08:01 pm (UTC)Looking for a subprincess are you?... let me know if'n you find an extra *grins*... I want someone to spoil too....
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