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Fair Energetic Exchange. This resonates w/me on many levels.
Whabout energy expended w/out acknowledgement? (Completely different from a volunteer situation, where it's asked for and given!) If'n I expend it unasked for, it's my own damn fault. Freely given, freely chosen. If'n I'm giving more than I feel comfie with, it's up to ME to curb it, to pull back on my own reins. Okay, this is getting very close to something I'm uncomfie with...
I want mutual interest and engagement. I'm gonna pull back if'n it feels too one-sided.
Whabout energy expended w/out acknowledgement? (Completely different from a volunteer situation, where it's asked for and given!) If'n I expend it unasked for, it's my own damn fault. Freely given, freely chosen. If'n I'm giving more than I feel comfie with, it's up to ME to curb it, to pull back on my own reins. Okay, this is getting very close to something I'm uncomfie with...
I want mutual interest and engagement. I'm gonna pull back if'n it feels too one-sided.
